Ive asked him why he doesnt love me and he replies with he doesnt know what love is or how it feels so he is unsure if he loves me because he doesnt feel anything
I usually think that our inner voice, that little voice nagging you that he is less interested, is right. But, that doesn’t mean that his feelings for you are changed. If I were you I would give him the space he is asking for, and take some space yourself. Try to focus on yourself now and be even too busy to meet him. All of this of course without any anger or bad energy. Don’t jump when he lifts a finger to see you, and don’t hurry answer him texts and calls either. Also, I wouldn’t ask him about him being interested in you or other girls for now, at all. I hope this helps, and if you can implement this, I think you’ll see the results. Good luck!
I ask him if he doesnt love me why is he with me, he says because he likes to be with me and he me with him in his future
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and a half and hes great to me , we always travel around , and soon moving in but everytime i ask him what he feels about me he says he likes me and likes to be with me but never says hes loves. Im pretty confused about it about his response.
I would give it a little more time to help him sort out his feelings, without pressure. If you can give him some time, go for it.
HI, this is my first time on a blog period so I guess that shows right there how desperate I am of getting back the man I know once loved and ( was inlove ) with me , and part of me and his behavior is telling me some of the love is still there . OK let me start with why im here . Im 19 and my ex is 19 ,we where together for all of 2 years in ( Nov 5th ) when we first met , he wanted me first , I actually didnt want him off rip , but eventually i gave in and realized it was the best decision i ever made , from that point on we were soooo happy and in love , up until recently we started to stay together it was fine at first then it was constant arguing , but even then we had the mentality that through whatever we were going anywhere , up until he went to his home state we were arguing while he was gone , i ended up hanging up and not talking to him until he got back ( 2 days ) mind you i usually dont give in on arguements i keep it going until we resolve it but this time i just gave in ( he was telling me he didnt want to talk to me anyway ) so when he got back i was already prepared to talk to him about the changes i was about to take in my life ( like progressing ) but he beat me too it by saying we had to talk , that was the first thing he said when he got back , not hi or i miss you or anything . long story short he seen his ex when he went back to his home state and told me he fell back in love with her , and he fell out of love with me , he didnt love me anymore and all this , ofcourse cried pleaded and everything i even said me or her , he said he cant promie me he’s gonna cut her off , and even after this i still decided to sty by his side for like 3 weeks after that , everything was actuallly going okay , no argueing , no fussing . but much more sex than normal but it was amazing and our connection was better as a couple , ( but we were separated ) .. its much more that happened after that good and bad but too much to type , i typed enough already lol . I just need some type of guidance to know how to deal with this , what to do , and am i a fool to keep fighting for him when he she’s still in the picture and VERY much relevant